Meaning of life

Assalamualaikum hai hai. Mira here :)

Today, after a very long absence, huhu i wanna write about the meaning of life.

They said life would be more meaningful if we stop comparing, life would be meaningful if we start to be grateful. But, what do we really get when we do all of the above? Will our life would be really easy? Or our journey will be in a straight timeline?

No. I bet no.

By saying life will be meaningful mean, we will felt content, we wont feel jealous or irritated by other people achievement, we wont fell down by other people success stories and we will not feel depressed watching other people timeline journey.

I know, it is truly hard to make ourselves feel this way. Me myself is struggling to remind my mind each and every day, that every person has their own timeline. Every single day, i would have this thought on my mind, "hey look at me, i'm 24, jobless, unmarried, 0 no kids, no car, penniless..." and the list goes on. And for every time i felt this way, i would drown in a very deep wavy thought, feeling depressed, distressed, anxiety, crying myself to death, feeling worthless, useless and life has no meaning. 

But hey, if we keep on seeing something we still didn't achieve, we might mislooked in the thing that we have achieved. Maybe for us the achievement is not much, but maybe for other person, what we have is what they really want. 

Honey, let us stop taking our life for granted. We have so much more in front of us. Life isn't just about looking at other people achievement, life is about embracing our achievement, life is about embracing our moment, living beautifully in all the second that we breathe so that the time when all those seconds become memories, we can remember everything with smile.

It is hard. I know as I am living that life too. It is tough. The peer pressure, the tense from everyone around us, the social media content from all the people we followed, the toxicity in our livinghood, but bear in mind that those people wont pay your bills, they wont pay your food, they wont pay your wedding or car and house installments. It is you, It is us, the one who living our own lives. We are the one who knew ourselves better, remember? Living our life to the fullest.

Maybe, when we stop comparing and start to feel grateful, for every penny that we have, for every air that we breathe, maybe our mind will be at ease, our heart will be lighter. InsyaAllah. Does that mean that we have find the meaning of life? The answer is in your heart.